Sanctuary Rescue Remedy

I wanted to write a blog post about the New Year. About intentions. About that one special word that is the inspiration I choose to focus on for 2017. But that’s not what happened when I sat down to write. What happened was a bit more unexpected, a bit more raw. And I think it’s worth sharing because what transpired has been delightfully surprising.

Waking up on January 2nd, after a full week of holiday festivities I was overcome overcome, not by gratitude, which would have been wonderful, or by a feeling of abundance and blessing, which would have also been fantastic. No. I was overcome with fear, worry, anxiety. Not exactly what I was hoping for, given that I had just turned the page over to a whole new year on the refrigerator calendar.

I was thinking about things. Weighty, big things, like the future, my career, how to make it all work, if I would ever be able to retire (and deciding probably not). I got myself into such a twist with this train of thought that I couldn’t sleep that night. My stomach was in a knot. My beloved husband snoring his beloved lungs out. My legs aching (if this is what Restless Leg Syndrome feels like, I need to stop smirking at that tv commercial advertising the pharmaceutical remedy). Even my cat was howling at the top of her lungs. Apparently, just not a good night for anyone other than the above-mentioned, oblivious, snorer.

And so I tossed and turned. Relocated to the sofa for a change of venue, only to find the outdoor holiday lights shining in my eyes. Then I realized I was hot and uncomfortable. Nothing was right. Nothing felt soothing. In that moment, I have to admit to you that I chose misery and suffering. It was mine and no one was going to take it from me.

I woke up early the next morning (which always happens after a sleepless night), went for a walk, meditated and somewhat calmed my overactive mind. I started writing my morning pages and opened up the doors and windows to let the balmy morning air into the house. All of the sudden, it was like a switch flipped on.

I started noticing things.

Dappled sunlight across my notebook.

Birds chirping right outside my back patio screen.

Breezes rustling the palm fronds in the trees.

The beautiful puppy sleeping in the chair across from my writing table.

My husband bringing me a fresh cup of coffee. I sipped it and had the notion that it was truly ambrosia. And ok, I forgave him for the snoring sins of the previous hours.

All of the sudden I realized, it’s okay. I am right where I need to be. All is well. And all will continue to be well.

All of the sudden I realized my sanctuary was doing it’s job.

It was pointing me back in the right direction, humming with the tune I had forgotten. Sitting there in my intentionally peaceful surroundings, my thoughts and attention were redirected away from the transient musings of my (practically insane) mind and on to what is real — this moment, this place, these people, right now.

So it is with no small bit of irony that I announce this news: Sanctuary really works!

It might seem silly that I should be amazed and delighted by the effect of my own sanctuary — this is my thing, after all. But holy guacamole it’s so great when I re-realize how powerful and effective my peaceful, sacred space is. What an agent of change and transcendence.

And you know what flipped the switch on that magical morning of January 2, 2017? Opening the doors. Reconnecting with Nature. Allowing that beauty from the outdoors to flow into my sanctuary. Erasing those boundaries between outside and inside, embracing those calming, healing properties of our natural world and welcoming them right inside. Now, I do realize that I am the lucky duck that lives in Naples, Florida and therefore even in the winter, I can fling open my doors with abandon. Maybe you don’t live in a warm climate, but you can still go outside for a walk. Or add a sweet, little houseplant to your desk by the window. There are lots of ways we can reconnect with the natural world — and doing so will always help us reach a better frame of mind, a calmer place inside ourselves.

SO YES. THAT’S WHAT HAPPENED. My sanctuary rescued me. It lifted me up and replenished my spirit. It brought me back to the truth of who I am and what is important to me. This has been so much better than a resolution, a word intention, or a goal.

It’s been a revelation. One that I can hang my hat on.

2017 is hereby deemed the Year of Sanctuary, at least for me. I hope it is a year of sanctuary for you too. If you are wondering how to bring nature into your sanctuary space, leave me a comment or a question below. Let’s talk about it!

With gratitude,

Lisa

LK

10 Comments

  1. You redeemed yourself when you gave a shout out to us who cannot open our windows in the winter! 🙂 Although sometimes, when the temperature is just right and there isn’t much breeze, I’ll open a window for a few minutes to let the crisp air in. And when I take the dog out, as long as it’s not too cold or windy, I stand and enjoy the outside air.

    I’m grateful my home is my sanctuary. If your snoring husband didn’t tell you, last week I fell and my head had an altercation with the ice. (Can I come to Naples?) I’ve been very sore, moving slow, achy, and the past couple of days have dealt with dizziness. One of the things I put in my journal this morning is that I’m grateful for my cozy home. Since I can’t be at work (or shopping, or coffee, or anywhere else fun) I’m so grateful I have this peaceful sanctuary home to enjoy and recover in. (And his beautiful music!)

    Yes, sanctuary works! It’s relaxing, energizing, calming and a refuge from the world – even when the world includes loud animals and husbands! 🙂

    Happy 2017, Lisa!

    1. So nice to hear from you Kathy — thank you for taking the time to read and respond. Sorry to hear about your mishaps. OY! Sending you peace and healing. xo

  2. Well written, Lisa!

    I needed that this morning…. a simple reminder to step outside, breathe in the fresh air, and set your mind free.

    Find some serenity in your own sanctuary….. and learn to love what surrounds you.

    🙂

  3. Lisa,
    As always, beautifully written. I always look forward to reading your entries. So, uplifting and inspiring.
    I take in a deep breath, hold it and let go. That’s what your sanctuary writings do for me.

    Lots of love,

    Carol

  4. What a lovely blog. The truth behind your writing is wonderful and refreshing.( makes me happy to know I am not the only one that can spin like a dradle out of control at times.
    This year the opposite happend to me. Having taken some down time between the holidays and trying to just relax, I actually was pretty non productive on all levels. Then I stared out the new year with much less zest then I usually have and gusto for my career and job. As I eased back into the 1st week to 2 weeks I was just moving along thinking I was all calm relaxed. Then when I came out of this one foot in front of the other state, BAM!!! The anxienty, Stress, worry, bills to pay, organize the house, WHAT HAVE I DONE mode,, hit me like a ton of bricks. Here I am 2 weeks into January and not much accomplished( in my mind)
    because I totally unplugged from my work, it was like I couldnt get plug back in at all.
    So the lists began the crazy thinking started and then I said,,”wait!” What I was practicing and all the internal peace you were working on in the fall( mediation app, crystals, one task at a time, “dont sweat the small stuff”a good reminder book , was working and now I was ready to throw it out the door because I was too chill..LOL. Sorta funny if you think about it.

    Well,, needless to say, my work ethic and drive for my job once again came back( thank goodness because I do love what I do) and I realized it just had taken me a bit longer to get my engine going again. So I started to grab my journal again( I had missed a few days here and there, )enjoy my morning routine again- my sanctuary on my lanai with candles, coffee and crystals, and sure enough it is all coming together.
    I realized how much I enjoy and need my “me ” sanctuary time. And sometimes It doesnt have to be so routine. And I know when I start to feel anxious what I need to do, calm, think, and of course get out side…LOL
    So, I am off for a morning run now before I start off the day,, The lovely chilly air in Ft myers florida is always welcomed for me.
    Much Love,
    Michelle

    1. Ah Michelle, I know I have done the same thing over an extended vacation from work — re-entry can be bumpy! But I appreciate you so very much. And I hope 2017 is a peaceful, happy and healthy year for you. For all of us! xo